I know Starsky. I keep thinking about exactly what you just wrote. Is this ultimately what I want? No, not at all. But how long do I wait to see if he turns? That's what I'm struggling with to decide for myself. I do feel I owe him *some* time as previously he was always the one that held our relationship together and pursued me. So this is a definite flip, and maybe it just has to be my turn for a while. But how long is the question...
Sadly, I just got a long text from my stepson. He is really struggling with everything now too because H apparently has pulled away from him recently as well. Just before OW moved and came to H's office H and I had gone to a concert with stepson and fiancé and all had a great time. Apparently H used to talk to them about us and they also thought we were reconciling, but now he's taken such a turn with them too. It's so sad all around and I don't know what to make of it all. Stepson actually said he feels like he doesn't know his Dad anymore. Is he just confused seeing OW? Is he involved with her again? I just don't know what to make of it all. My heart hurts for all involved.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
