It [censored] and is horrible, but it is her choice. She'll have to live with it for the rest of her life.
You might want to see Nicole from the list I gave you. She can help you with how to handle S8. Time to put your pain aside and do whatever you can for S8. Detach for him.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14