YOU have been given a second chance. Nope, you didn't ask for it...but, you got it. What's the alternative? To spend more of your precious life attached to someone who thinks it's ok to make comments like that to your two daughters?
When I read what she said...yep, it's sad...BUT, it's also a gift...in a strange way...for your Ds. It's validation that mom is CRA-CRA right now. Nothing worse than people who are crazeeeee but able to pull off the appearance of SANITY. At least your girls are getting a full-on glimpse of the workings of her adolescent mind. It will make it easier on them in the long run when they try to recover from the neglect/emotional unavailability of their mom. It will make easier for them to see her for who she is right now than blaming themselves and turning that rejection of family on themselves.
This lady is >>>>>>>T.R.O.U.B.L.E.D.<<<<<<<<<
She has been that way for awhile. God just gave you a chance to REDO things in HIS way, YOUR WAY, FOR YOUR Ds. He gave you a WAY OUT.
Get a lil excited. Just a lil.
She only seems irreplaceable right now because of the intense hurt she has caused. When that happens, our brain tends to get confused between the love and danger element. Don't idealize your relationship. Look at it with honesty. Look at HER with honesty.
What things have you allowed in your life to hold you back? What things are you most afraid of?
God has great things in store for you my friend. Open yourself up to the possibilities of this new life.
You have two beautiful daughters who may go on to value family all the more because they watched their mom throw it away recklessly. I know that's what happened to me after my dad's MLC...I value family and those good moments together. I treasure them. I know what's really important in life.
YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER THAN IT WAS...This is the thing that will put the rejection in it's proper place...SUCCESS...by whatever measure you hold it (doesn't have to be money)...what's your vision of success??? Take one lil action step to achieving it today. God will put things in place to help you get there.
Quote:
Verse 1: (This morning when I rose), I didn't have no doubt.
(This morning when I rose), I didn't have no doubt.
(This morning when I rose), I didn't have no doubt.
(I know the Lord) will take care of me, (I know the Lord) will provide for me, (and I know He will) lead and guide me all the way, yes, all the way.
Verse 2: (I woke up this morning, I saw a brand new day), I didn't have no doubt.
(I woke up this morning, I saw a brand new day), I didn't have no doubt.
(I woke up this morning, I saw a brand new day), I didn't have no doubt.
(I know the Lord) will take care of me, (I know the Lord) will provide for me, (and I know He will) lead and guide me all the way, yes, all the way.
Read more: Mississippi Mass Choir - This Morning When I Rose Lyrics | MetroLyrics
Much Love,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
