Not sure what to do

[MrBond]

Okay NOW we're getting somewhere. 25yearsmlc did a VERY good job at pointing out how what you did pushed your W away.

You weren't there for her the way SHE wanted you to be. Alot of your reasoning for why you did certain things and approached things were based of what YOU believed. Not your W. Have you actually read the books?

You need to understand her POV rather than just saying that she was "bitching" at you all the time. You never understood WHY or WHAT she was really trying to get through to you.

Are you willing to approach this with an open mind or just see your W as a "bitch" who needs to change?