Thanks cq1, how are you doing? I've been checking your thread and it sounds like you have a complicated but improving situation! I'm wishing you luck!

I'll experiment with not responding at all to his contact. I think the next time I hear from him will be to come get his things from the house however and I suppose I will need to reply for practical reasons. But maybe not, we shall see.

Thanks for your advice cq and pilot!
Hugs,
Lisa B

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.