Wife dropped the bomb; doing in house separation

[HopeTex]

I like the way you think Sandi. There is some chance my moving back into the master will set the W off and she will threaten moving forward with D, but actually I don't really care if it does.

Nettles, I will ask the counselor his opinion, but in the end the while point is that I need to make the decision for myself, instead of thinking I can't make a decision without a counselors stamp of approval. I actually think the counselor will be supportive of me going my own way for a while.