Originally Posted By: Gotan74
My mom called and talked to me. She said she talked to my wife and she said she still loved me and enjoyed spending time with me. She also told her that the earliest she could see moving back home was the second week in the new school year. That would be September , she also said that something's have to change.she called and wanted to know our plans for the weekend. She travels for work so she stayed at home went to Philly and will come back home and leave for London. So we as a family are going to an Art Festival Friday and her and I are going on a brewery tour. When I Tolbert about the tour she said she was happy to go. What kind of separation is the kind where she is only gone two to three days and she does nothing while gone.is she playing some kind of game?



Sorry to go so far back but who ^^^said what here???

Is your MOM saying "Somethings have to change" or your wife or both? And is your mom coming to live with you again?

and how does your wife feel about THAT?

What, if anything, will be done to address your mom living with you?

Do you ever think your wife might feel less alienated from family, and more like "the woman of the house" if your mom stepped back more?

Or anything along any NEW lines?

In other words, can you change some of the dynamic at all?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change