Dealing with ongoing affair -which may now be over

[PeterV2]

She just sent me a text earlier today to pick up potatoes for the RH. That's the last I've heard from her. I sent her a couple of texts with no reply. It's now 11pm and I have no idea where she is. She has a staff staying overnight at the RH so she could stay out all night if she wants.

Whatever. I spent about 6 hours at the RH this pm doing maintenance work but she wasn't there. Left at 9 & went home.

I'll just carry on here at home.

A couple of days ago she was crying and said, "I'm done." I told her things would get better but she to me to leave her alone and she continued crying as I left. I don't really know what she's done with. The RH? Our M? Life? I didn't ask. Maybe I should have, but the timing didn't seem right. She stopped kissing me good-bye since then. Just a hug. I think that flood in the basement put her over the top. She blamed me for it because I didn't fix something she told me to fix. It's fixed now, but too late. I totally disagree with her that I'm to blame but I'm not about to start arguing with her about that. I tried arguing my case but she's locked into her own beliefs. We'll get the insurance company to fix the damage.

Now she's moved into one of the largest rooms in the RH - very nice. She likes it. Hopefully that will improve her outlook on life and she'll cut me a little slack.