Stimulus-Response: The Experiment Continues

[Shining]

GGG,

I completely know the "wag." And I don't see too many couple friends as often anymore. Not because I was uncomfortable, but because they were uncomfortable not knowing what to do or say. Or not do or not say.... It was easier for them to not see me.

And I didn't talk about it either. It was more, the "elephant in the room" thing.

I guess I got to the point that I stopped caring what they thought because their experience of me is about them, and their own past, and their own history, and how they apply my life to their world.....blech.... I'm applying the detaching technique everywhere!