just curious --have you read the Div Busting or Div Remedy books?
There is advice AGAINST exposure and I've never seen it work. A guy around here claims it worked for him but I don't know the details, i only know that it is NOT a practice advocated by MWD for Divorce Busting. There are many reasons for that if you are interested...
But really, I just suggest you choose AN approach and give it a fair shot,(= sufficient time) before giving up or mixing it up with another one, or mixing them together (which is unfair to both approaches).
Just my .02
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016