Well, H may have answered my question for me. (If you're lurking here, dear, just let me know!) As we parted ways tonight, he said, "That was great - we didn't have any conflict. This was a good idea." Typical goodbye -- he initiated a hug, a kiss on the lips, and an ILY. He also changed the time of our meeting on Tuesday so that we'll have more time to talk.
I'm stepping back until we see each other again on Tuesday.