It's been complicated the past few weeks.... he has been telling me he isn't over her but doesn't text her anymore. We were at his cousins grad party and the twins were playing with H's phone. He went to change S2 and I decided to snoop. Haven't done this is almost 2 months. He had texts to her with live you x you're beautiful, links to you tube songs....etc.... I calmly walked out to the car where he was and told him to give me the keys or take me home. I let out alot of feelings on the way home. H said he was scared of the work it would take to repair what he had done. He said I was stronger than him to have changed for the better.

I told him to get out. That he had 10 minutes or I was calling the police. I have no legal standing as of this moment but we live in a city where my uncle and cousin are both police officers, my mom dated a police officer here and I know a lot of them so I reminded H of this and reminded him my uncle and cousin know what H has done to me so push me and I will call the police and they willmake him leave.

H wanted me to yell at him more and "get it all out so I feel better and won't have to call him later to do it" I told him calmly to just get out I will see him in court and I won't be calling him later.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction