If lunch date is separated he might just need support, an ear who's walking that path. Althought he could be needy and thinking he should move on, hence it " might" get ugly.

If he has kids it could work out as play dates for kids and someone to share the child load if you need a sitter if h let's you down.

I guess it's just not knowing, the person and how sticky it could get.
I'm still holding onto my lighter fluid and zippo!
(For me, I'm terrified of op expectations)

As for my il family, I'm pretty sure his script it the same one he gave from his first wife. All his lines he used with her he used for me and on me.

Which was she left for a much younger man she had a crush on and she drank far too much so thus had a drinking problem. All her fault his was a 100%

I don't drink and found lots of evidence h was drinking far more than I saw. he would have one drink most nights with me, but I found missing grog, s16 mentioned Friday h would have at least 2 drinks before I got home. He constantly accused me of a!

I did not drink nor have too many male friends, nor did I go anywhere without him knowing where I was. H often was seen in places I had no idea he was going.

Last edited by Ggrass; 08/10/14 12:40 AM.
M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26