I guess if you go or not depend on your game on the longer term. What are your goals?
Lunch per say isn't a situation in which you could get cornered like a date at night, but it could lead to expectations. Is this a new person or friend who's known you as a couple?
I'm a longer way down the track, and h is not showing any signs of r. He's acting like I'm Jack the Ripper. His family treated my like a stranger they didn't know and his aunt could even look me in the eye. My life in some form needs to move on and is in a way.
I flip and I flop, but most of the time, I'm happy being on my own. I'm not a huge party person, and like my own time and hobbies.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26