WAW not admitting to affair #3

[shodan]

The trip was not punitive. I needed some time off. My wife is taking the following week off. I actually wanted it to be a family vacation where we could just be as a family. I was feeling soft and trying to be Plan A. My MIL even said that I should focus on what brought us together and show her a great future. But with all of the lies and deceit just piling on, it now seems like a bad decision on my part. I really s**k at this detaching thing.

shared CC: unfortunately, i don't have access to the card that she now has. When I asked about it, she said it was another example of me being controlling. So outside of filing a D and getting a freeze/restraining order on our assets, I am not sure what i can do. Spouses can have their own credit cards and bank accounts.