Another question...i am taking my kids to the cape next week. I booked us a nice hotel and am looking forward to the vacation. My W wants to come for part of it (she has to work for 3 of the 7 days). I know my kids want her there, but I feel this is cake eating. Should I be blunt and just say "until you are being honest with me and our family about what has been happening in NYC, you should not come with us."
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed