Matt, It's okay to have your pity party. You are strong and you will survive. I haven't read all of your sitch, but just like you keep encouraging me, I'm here for you.

Your Ds are going to grow up knowing that there are good men out there who will do whatever they can for their wives. They will find a man just like you as they move forward with their lives.

Talk to God, listen to Him. He hates divorce and will deal with your W how he needs to. He is here for you. Love Him and He will give you what you desire most. I understand and get that it's so hard to let them go, but let more of your W go. Don't give up, but let go.


Atsbaby
M:36 H:35
T: 19 M:12
S:11
D:9
BD: 5/4/14
Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her
8/19 admits OW
8/22/14 files D w/o telling me
9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile