So something that really confuses me in terms of how to handle is I totally feel that when I am cool and detached it really drives H away. But when I am warm and friendly it tends to pull him in. It seems like there is no way I can both detach AND reattract him. There's some finer point here that I feel like I keep missing...
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
