Thanks pilot! I love it. I will test it out and see if it works. I have tried waiting 12 hours or so to reply, that seems to work pretty well. The thing I want to be careful about is seeming angry, as that makes him think I am soooo in love and upset that I can't handle it. And I think that feeds into his egotistical idea that he doesn't love me but I love him. So I try to be cool, but not seem angry. Does that make sense?

Thanks so much for the tip! I will try it!
Hugs, LisaB

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.