barely holding on - 2

[u-turn]

I've got a question and I don't know how to handle specific situations yet.

So - W & I are having a normal and good day. Worked together in the yard, went to a quick lunch, plenty of small talk, we come home and she plants a big long kiss on me. not a peck, a kiss that wanted more. I kind of held back and wanted to say

"whoa - after not talking much for 2 weeks, this confuses me and is sending me mixed signals. What is it that you want?"

I went along with the kiss - it felt weird so I feel like I was a little cold. She then wants to go out tonight. I'd like to, it feels normal, but I'm always after the talk first. I know it wreck the day though.

So, is this what cake eating is about? Is this something that I should just go with? Is this something that I stop with a conversation?

A 180 would be to say that I don't want to go with her tonight.

Input?