Hi Old Dog, half way up a tree doesn't sound like a safe place to have a breakdown but I sure can understand. Stay strong!

Last time we talked WAH said that thing have been hard for him, he "is not out just happily having a great time" and he is sad. I try to remember that when I imagine him out happily having a great time.

One thing I guess I don't really get is WHY isn't he happy and having a great time if he is so convinced he doesn't love me and our R is over?

When I dumped boyfriends in the past I wasn't sad for months.. I was fine, felt guilty but that was it! I don't get this. Not that I'm complaining. I want him to be sad, broken, depressed and miserable! As miserable without me as possible!

At the same time I know he struggles with being alone so maybe that is why he is so sad.

Hugs,
LisaB

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.