The current state of things:
Convinced my parents to help w/ private school even though it's not my dad's religion. (They help my siblings w/ their kids' private school too.)

W got in touch w/ a friend who works at the school we want him to go to. Found out the 5K program is full. Since the OW from my EA is sending her son there too, my W is not ok w/ it. I'm very worried this could be the kids of death. But I'm not quitting.

Pray for me.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.