Hi Raine, Your past posts were one of the first things I read when I got here. Thanks for all the insight!
I would like to ask why it was that he was so afraid of being rejected by YOU when HE was the one to leave? He must have known that you wanted a R with him if you allowed him back into the home and your life. Sure there was guilt over his ending the M by his choice, but he also was allowed back which must show that you wanted him, right?
I can't imagine that my W wouldn't think I wanted our M back if she asked and I allowed her to move back in. I just don't understand why they would feel so much fear of rejection?
