Trying to detach

[HeadUp]

Well news is ah is that the D is on hold and I keep working on myself and watching my children. Told her Last night when I asked her to pick up the kids early on Sunday and after she yelled and said I was upset and starting drama (which I wasnt), that I was tired of her using me and that she is nice to me when she wants something but when I ever ask she says I am upset and starting an argument. She then text some bad things but I am done with her controlling my emotions. I want to talk to her like we use to. She is angry and I have validated her about her anger but I won't be verbally belittled because I ask for fairness in this situation. I miss my wife not this woman. Forward is the only direction I am going and she will be with me or she wont. Thank you all.