Wonka, I agree with uturn, your post does put things into perspective very well.

My insecurity has led to so many if not all of the problems that caused the marriage to break down. I need to just relax, keep doing what I've been doing and give things time.

I'll always be the father of our children, that has to mean a lot to my W. In time, if she can see I'm a pretty good guy and an even better dad that could pull us back together.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS