I am glad to see that you're ramping up your GAL activities. That will help you with the detachment a great deal.
Originally Posted By: mdu
As for H, I've decided to pretty much do nothing for now. I've pursued him a bit and he's declined my invites so I'd say the ball is firmly in his court. At the moment I actually feel more content with just letting it be than I have in long time (maybe ever?).
Inaction is action too. This is something that a lot of newbies aren't comfortable with in the early stages. You've come a long way, baby!!!