barely holding on - 2

[u-turn]

So there's a dilemma. I can do all of this fixing of myself (which will be a plus for my future). But the likelihood of the A ending is dim. Even if she wanted to - she wasn't strong enough to resist it when it started, how can she be strong enough now that she's addicted to it?

I guess that I will know when to bring this topic up, but when do you think I should talk about the reality of the A being an addiction that she may need help kicking and maybe the fact that she should find a new job. But then really - that may not even end it if she doesn't want to (I guess I'm thinking too far ahead)