Hmmmm depends on the Mlcer - my xh used to respond to any reaching out by initial friendliness then a big emotional punch in the gut. A sort of 'come closer and then I can hit you again'
FY your wife is a 'nice' MLCer, some of them become vicious. no other way of describing their behaviour.
Agreed. And I don't pretend to know Bright's H, or what would or wouldn't work with him. But I do know we all can try stuff and pay attention to the response.
Matt, I like that you set the women straight. Ok, not really my type but you're hot too.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl