This roller coaster is ... ughh .. not something thats fun
So dropped S off this morning as I mentioned, get to work and dive into it (helps me not obsess and over analyze) she texts me to call her. its right about the time she gets into work (we have chatted in the past during her commute) ... so I call thinking the worst but ... just go with it, she was having an issue with her car .. ends up she accidenly left the dome light on, she was stressed about work and started telling me all about it. I listened, even remarked that the guy she was talking about was the same she had told me months ago pissed her off, I was supportive, validated, almost tried to fix her problem but stopped myself and just listened (Huge 180) ... as I got off the phone I wished her to have a better day, told her go get em... and let the guy have it (another 180) I got off the phone and was happy .. baby steps, she shared her work issues with me, connected, and I was able to just stay quite and listen, made progress. Now she is texting me about $$ and how much I am putting in, if I have taken my car off the insurance, ... I have yet to reply, but will ... just frustrating how one second you are connecting, the next you are treated like a customer ... alas if it were perfect I would not be knees deep in this trying to change and save my marriage.
