Hey gg, so glad you followed me over, I did ring up the free services, so all good there, they were really helpful. twinmom, yes the one boundary I am firm on I'd that the ow is not to meet our boys, I don't care if they've been seeing each other for months(which I strongly suggest is the case, even though he said it's only been 6 to 8 weeks) the boys are too young and they are still trying to used to the idea that mum and dad are s. The school councilor said to both of us that s7 in particular need structure and consistency right now and to let the dust settle before making any more changes. H is any with her this weekend, and I just got text message from him (it's 3 am here! ) asking if I had money he can transfer over til Monday, he's at the casino, ummm in appropriate much?? thus is where his head is at, and yet doesn't think he has a problem with gambling. gg this one is for you, found out today ow got busted(and there's photographic evidence) giving shane warne a 'service' whilst on her knees....classy huh lol lol
