lost and desperate

[LisaB]

Hi Ss06, I feel for you. The only thing I can say is that right now maybe you should let go of the idea of working on things. Not that you shouldn't or won't think about it, but it sounds like HE needs to be the one to wake up and realize he needs to work.

Try to focus on yourself as much as you can. It may sound crazy but you will probably start to feel better once he moves out. That way you don't have him constantly upsetting you and can better focus on the present moment.

My advice is try to detach as much as possible and focus on you. Not easy, but it sounds like he doesn't deserve your attention right now. Let him go find out if his life is better without you. If it is, not much you can do about that, as much as it s#cks! But the more space you give him, the better. No need to be mean or angry, just detach, protect yourself.

Sending you good thoughts!
Hugs, Lisa