cc i'm sorry that he's being such a d*ck.
Were they your dogs too by the way? I'm assuming they were. Well think of that as a benefit for you to see them, so better to just let him drop them off in the back and leave. He isn't mature enough to just have civil conversation with you - but yet wants you to do him a favor. I guess that is typical MLC behavior.
Going forward never ask anything of him, you can figure it out, but I get that - he set it up, you were helping him out so he should have just made the fix, would have taken him less than a minute. yeah I know those stereos are difficult- my ex set one up too and I would not know how to change it either but i'll be damned if i'll ever ask him anything again. (oh my that bitterness just pops out once in awhile!) It's just reliving the rejection and we have the option of not allowing them to control our mood or feelings. When you do get it fixed you will feel so good that you took care of it and you don't need him. He was a d*ck though, try and let it slide off your back, like water on a ducks back smile thinking of you!!


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs