I totally know and feel that DBing is for me, and it has helped me in other areas of my life.

My H is home now (never left home physically), but not "really". He is my roommate, sometimes sex partner and all the time coparent, and I feel like we are getting back to being better friends to each other, something that we started out as friends. and I like him being my friend, coparent.

I will not focus on others outcomes, everyones situation is different. I will focus on today,,,as it relates to my marriage.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW