Have you read the Five Love Languages? If you have but it's been a while, read it again. Sounds like your love tank is on empty and you're waiting for your H to fill it again. But if you want him to fill yours, you need to quit waiting and start filling his first. Also based on what you're saying it sounds to me like you've got nothing to lose since you're checking out anyway, so tell him how you feel. Tell him what you stated here. Suggest to him that you attend Retrouvaille. If you haven't been before it's really amazing, it revolutionizes communication between spouses. It's not much help when one is a full-blown WAS, but in your sitch where things are bad but there's no WAS yet it can really work miracles. Good luck!
