I still haven't received the check so my mind is still wondering if the darn USPS forwarded it to him after all. Trying to be patient. Gosh you're right cc - anything could tick him off at this point so I just have to hope for the best. I wish they had just transferred the funds over to the new loan. Oh well, it is what it is. Yes - I'm still dating him, his nickname is Chance... how apropos for me. He's my age, good childhood - I met his parents who are still married and they have a very lovely family, I'm hoping this means no future MLC I know it's pretty early to think of such things but after going through this once I never want to go through it again. So far so good, he treats me wonderfully, he's all about communicating which is new for me, and romantic - we have discussed the ex's (both mine and his) and we're just really enjoying each others company. I'm totally smitten. I've now got him hooked on watching Game of Thrones too, bonus! The animals really like him also which is a good sign for me. The cat brought up a "gift" last night and left it in the kitchen - mouse - it was nice to have someone there who would dispose of it for me! I know I can do all those things myself, but it was nice not to have to. Still being independent and my own person, but definitely enjoying this.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
I know it's pretty early to think of such things but after going through this once I never want to go through it again. So far so good, he treats me wonderfully, he's all about communicating which is new for me, and romantic - we have discussed the ex's (both mine and his) and we're just really enjoying each others company. I'm totally smitten. I've now got him hooked on watching Game of Thrones too, bonus! The animals really like him also which is a good sign for me. The cat brought up a "gift" last night and left it in the kitchen - mouse - it was nice to have someone there who would dispose of it for me! I know I can do all those things myself, but it was nice not to have to. Still being independent and my own person, but definitely enjoying this.
