Lisa, I really need to hear your words this morning. Thank you.
I'm stuck in that place between resentment and giving up and I hate it. How do i recover from this pain AND WANT to work on things with someone who is never wrong, extremely insecure, desperate to feel powerful and dominant and attempting to anticipate my needs and tell me how I REALLY feel (he says the only reason I don't want a divorce is that I'm afraid of change. Thanks for putting words in my mouth and really not listening to a word I've said).
And related to your story, Lisa, if during this time away from one another I realize I'm better off without him, he'd never fight for me. He'd never fight for us. That's not mind reading. That's just him.
I need to really find more consistent ways to GAL. I don't have enough friends and I'm afraid to spend money. I'm afraid my GAL will mean I'm around less for my daughter and that scares me.
