LisaB
I feel the same way when trying to detach. Boy - this doesn't seem like I am doing anything.

I try to leave the room shortly after she comes in to just sit so it doesn't appear that I am waiting or pursuing. I don't know if this seems cold or childish to her.

But we still have conversations about whatever she wants to talk about at the time (usually work or some logistical thing). So I don't know always if I'm detaching enough.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015