Shmoopie has been acting weird, and when I mean weird, I mean normal to some degree. This has happened for a few weeks now. This has put my guard up even more and has caused me to spin emotionally, because I can't stop wondering and reflecting on our marriage.
He has filed for the divorce a few weeks ago and when my attorney gave me word I wasn't bothered at all. It really did feel like a business transaction and had no emotional attachment.
I guess this all puts me emotionally on edge, because I am looking to the future ( and it doesn't include shmoopie) and have done things to progress my wants and needs in life. I even started a very casual, relaxed non-co dependent relationship with a guy who knows everything regarding Shmoopie and I.
Is this normal? I don't feel like I want my ex, but I feel like he is invading MY world a little bit. It really is a double edged sword, because this normalcy is what I feel is needed for us to co-parent our children, but I feel like something isn't quite right.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
