Is there anyone else that you could ask? Remember you wanted to go NC. If your W goes, I think you will be full of expectation IMHO. This will set you up to start spinning. If that is what you want to do I have no problem because it is what you want to do.
Just thinking out loud, Hang tough
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014