As for the A, she insist that it's over. Last week W called me and wanted to meet up to talk. On that day she told me she called the OM and the OM wife and told them both that she did not want any contact with them ever again. . . . As for boundaries, I told her that if she has any contact with OM, It will be the deal breaker for me. She told me she will be honest to me. I told her I did not trust her and it will take time if we both wanted us to make it. . . .
Did she agree to be transparent with you? This is key.
