Please don't make the mistake I made and allow OW near the kids just yet. That was a huge mistake that cost me lots of emotional days.

Yes my H is back in my house but no he is not "back" in our marriage.

He went public (with family) with OW immediately, and it's been a long road. I know it's hard (sometimes impossible) but don't pursue, try your absolute best not to be emotional/cry around him. I can't do it all the time but I try really hard.

Emotionally just knowing my kids are not playing happy family with OW is a huge relief and allows me to have a much better PMA.

Find out what your legal rights are and stand strong.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction