Hi Ss06, Joe1981 and watto14 - wow that is a lot of numbers! Thanks so much for your support! I really appreciate it.
I'm breathing a small sigh of relief as my H seems to be back to friendly random texting again.
I am a bit unsure exactly how to handle it. Do I be friendly in return? Do I be distant? Will he be able to miss me if I respond to his texts in a friendly way?
I am torn between being friendly and being distant. I want to create a bit of mystery but not seem angry. This mystery building is not my thing! So far I try to create mystery by: - never contacting first - not replying right away - ending the conversation first if possible - being cool and upbeat, always seeming busy and fun and happy - avoiding "hot topics" with humor
Anyone have tips for seeming independent and mysterious without being mean and cold?
Oh and Ss06 I think the above might answer your question, it is half fake it and half real.
Hope everyone is having a good one! Hugs, Lisa B
Me: 34 H: 30 M: 4 years BD: 6/15/14 He moved out 6/30/14 OW1: EA then PA after BD Now he's dating multiple OWs I'm over it and moving on.
