MrBond, Thanks for your reply. Wife wants to go to couples/ marriage counseling. She told me she got a referral for a therapist but after reading about her she decided she was not the right one. Should I also try to find a counselor or should I just let her do it? Reason I don't want to do it is because she initiated it and I want her to go through with it. Suggestions please. I've been noticing that at times she's really into fixing our M, then there are times when she's shuns away from it. I feel her cold ess towards me. Is this normal? How should I react? Sometimes I just want to scream and tell her this is not fair. Why does it seem like I'm the one doing most of the fixing in a understanding way and she can sway back and forth? This shouldn't be right, right? Uugh, sometimes I just want to ignore her ignoring me and just pretend she's not there. How should I be in these instances???
