So- WOW! My H just basically told me he is in MLC.
This IS huge. Yay!
I think you are validating and encouraging H perfectly. Keep it up, but also allow him his space.
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I also said I'm here if he needs to talk. He said thanks but he has no room for feelings right now.
This is a clue that he wants more space. He knows you are there for him, allow him to come to you. He will.
Matt is correct, H is still likely to flip flop a few times here. Kinda like when he moved back home, and then out again. Don't let this trip you up or send you crashing. Just continue to be the steady rock in his life. The one he still cares for, and continues to feel comfortable enough to confide in.
Oh, and don't forget to leave that light on!
Last edited by ForeverYoung; 08/08/1403:33 AM.
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