Is this a good sign? What do I do now?

[Maybell]

I've read Labug's thread most of the way through and she seemed to have been a little wary too. Her H was gone two years and she'd made her life something she liked. Though she missed him when they began reconciling it was more about making time to have fun together (see her Dating thread) than throwing down the heavy romantic gestures.

For my H and I to reconcile, we'll have to first experience again the parts of one another that brought us close. Dating, chats,having fun, learning to trust (also tons of counseling). If he started showering me with flowers and stuff I'd say he was getting ahead of himself a lot.

It really doesn't matter what "they" feel though. Just what you feel.