He said I still "do it for him"...and he struggles to keep cool every time he sees me. That yesterday was especially hard and he didn't want to leave (the restaurant). He said it was all he could do not to kiss me. Then he said, "you still have the power". Strange comment I thought.... He feels I have power?
It doesn't seem strange to me at all. H is still (very!) turned on by you, so you do have much power.
My manly advice: Keep flirting but don't give in to his advances when he wants to take it farther. Not only because you don't want to be baking him any cakes, but because it will make him want you even more.
I envy the ladies here who have H's that are still hot for them. Not all the ladies are as fortunate. And it seems NONE of the H's here have W's in crisis that still fancy them in a physical way.
Just pay close attention and use your "power" accordingly.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
