I would act as if OW didn’t exist. Unless he tries to be intimate. I don’t have any solid advice on this. I would not know what to do myself. Maybe tell him that you are not ready this time, but kind of let him know that you might be open to it. See what he does. Will it give him some motivation to continue to pursue you? I’m so excited to read your updates.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
