Hi all, thought it was time to swap to this thread, now that h is put in the open with the ow... brief rundown: h said he was unhappy, had been for a while in march 14, we s and he floated between his mums, or house and a hotel, originally said he was done, then considered reconciling, moved into his own place may 14, things were ok, then I pursued and things went drastically backwards. bd 2 late June, H told me to let him go, that he'd always love me but the feelings weren't there, suspected ow for a long time but ignored it. bd 3 July 14, said he'd been 'talking' to someone, same ow he had a brief a with Nov last year, says he wants to see where it goes. it's all escalated very quickly, he wants (at her pushing) her to meet our three boys, and he had to degreed me off fb (which he then said I should re friend him) that he's to have minimal contact with me. They are away together this weekend, sooo that's it in a nutshell, he has moments where he is affectionate towards me (usually when I'm feeling teary and emotional) and then at other times acts like I am a complete stranger...
