So- WOW! My H just basically told me he is in MLC. He's out of town still and has been checking on how I'm feeling. Then all of the sudden sends a text saying " why is it that MLC has to last the whole middle of my life? I need to find a job I care about again. I need to balance things better".
I sent back a text saying it's not a quick process, I agree that having a job he cares about would help a lot, and that he's working on the balance and it is hard so be kind to himself. Tried to validate as much as I can but not try to fix it for him. I also said I'm here if he needs to talk. He said thanks but he has no room for feelings right now.
Definitely processing through that MLC tunnel...... Go to the light, go to the light, your W is waiting as your lighthouse on the other side!!!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
