"Am I supposed to simply ignore the fact that she is actively cheating on me right now? I'm approaching it no differently than anyone else whose wife has betrayed him. If you want to tag me as "hypocritical" due to my past, then fine. But I'm not the one who is engaging in infidelity right now."
This part stands out. The issue is that alot of this stemmed from your infidelity which you seemed perfectly fine with when you were in it. The problem is that you seem to come down 10x's harder down on her for this one affair with a guy who she feels respects her, when you had multiple A's and she didn't go after you with the same intensity as you are now.
It really does seem like you have a do as I say and not as I do attitude when it comes to her A. Unlike your A's, you pretty much pushed her into her one by sweeping things under the rug and not truly understanding her POV.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
